Create Your own Family Church – How to Pray

How to Pray

Create Your Own Family Church

by Stephanie Relfe

Jesus Christ said, “If two of you shall agree on earth as touching anything that they shall ask, it shall be done for them of my Father which is in heaven. For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them”. Matthew 18:20

He didn’t say that this had to be done in a church. Make your own family church. This article will suggest some ways to honor and pray to God in your own family church at home, including:

  • Hymns.

  • Prayers to guide you.

  • Personal prayers.

  • Bible reading.

  • Breaking bread as Jesus asked you to do.



I suggest that you make an altar in your home as a holy area. This is to:

  • Remind you of God.

  • Give spiritual power and protection to your family church.

  • Tell God that He is welcome in your home.

  • Encourage divine, holy behavior.

Your altar doesn’t have to be expensive or complicated. A simple box covered in a cloth, with maybe a candle and something that makes you think of God, will be wonderful. Do not use any 3D objects, such as statues, because the bible says,

“Thou shalt not make unto thee any graven image, or any likeness of any thing that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth.” (Exodus 20:4).

A “Graven image” is a 3D object. We believe that God says not to have these because they can house demons. However, we believe that 2D objects such as pictures are not graven images, and are allowed. Here is what we have in our home church:





Music can uplift the spirit, but it can also drag it down. The vibration of the music itself is very important, but so also is the vibration of the people making and singing the music. It has been found that two identical pieces of music can have different effects on people, depending on who the conductor was.

All Christian Rock music is demonic, because the vibrations of the music shatter the chakras and body’s spiritual centers. In addition, some people who call themselves Christians are secretly Satanists, and their energy will infect your life if you listen to it or let their energy into your home. I would suggest that even Country Music has a down-side (since so much of the lyrics are about losing everything, death and misery).

It can be quite a challenge to find uplifting, quality Christian Music these days. As yourself if the music creates the feeling of divinity. Another way to know if a particular piece of music is good for you is to have someone listen to it, and then muscle test them. If the person’s arms go weak, then that music is weakening. That is how I know that most of the music that people listen today, even Christian music, is not of God.


When you find a song that you like, find the words (lyrics), print them out, and keep them in a ring binder. Have spare copies for extra people. Add a note at the bottom of each hymn of which youtube links play the song.

One hymn that I recommend is “Holy God, we praise They Name”. Here are the words.


Here’s another – “Count your Blessings One by One”:



Print out a copy of the following prayers and/or your own alterations and prayers.




You may play the hymns on youtube, but don’t use wireless computers to do so, as wireless technology has demonic things in it as well (that’s one reason why people are so addicted to it). Use a computer with cable.


Especially put the full armor of God on you and your family every day. This is part of spiritual warfare:

“For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.” (Ephesians 6:12)

Here is a suggestion for a prayer for whole armor of God:

“Heavenly Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, I now put upon myself and all present the full armor of God, the armor of Light, the Breastplate of Righteousness, the Shield of Faith, the Helmet of Salvation, the Sword of the Spirit, the Belt of Truth, the Garment of Vengeance, the Cloak of Zeal, and any other part of the armor of God that I do not know about, and my feet shod with the gospel of peace.” (Eph 6:11-17, Isaiah 59:17)

Other prayers for spiritual protection and warfare are –

“Heavenly Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, please protect me from the influence of fallen angels and demonic powers.

Father, please give me forgiveness for all my sins including sins of past lives and sins of my ancestors back to one hundred generations on both sides of the family. Father, if there is anything that I am doing or have done in past that allows evil to come into my life, please show me what it is and how I should get rid of it. Amen. (Amen means “so be it”).”


Here is a suggestion. If you like it, copy this and make your own personal alterations to it –

“I rejoice in worshipping You, Almighty God, the God who supersedes all other gods, deities, powers and beings. You are all sufficient in supplying life, joy, healing, salvation, wisdom and protection.

praise You the God who is the Great I Am, the God who is eternal, who spans the past, the present and the future.

I marvel at the Creator-God, who spoke Creation, spirit and life into being, and protects and preserves life and the physical universe.

I bow before the all powerful God, the God of whom all things are possible, and who controls all physical and spiritual powers.

I humble myself before the all knowing God who knows every scientific secret and my every thought.

I rejoice that God is all present from the depths of the earth to the farthest reaches of space, and through all spiritual worlds.

I praise the triune God – God the Father, Jesus Christ the Son and the Holy Spirit the comforter. May they all dwell in our hearts and guide us to be Holy, pure and correct. For Jesus Christ said,

“The Comforter, which is the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, he shall teach you all things.”

I marvel that God personified love by giving His Son to provide salvation (John 3:16)

I rejoice in Christ, my High Priest, who represents me to God the father and God the Father to me.

I worship the Holy One who is distinct in His purity and glorious in his righteousness.

I praise God for grace, mercy and blessings offered to followers like me.

I marvel that God is approachable as my “Abba Father”.

I rejoice that I draw strength from God who is the same yesterday, today and forever.

O adore the God of joy because the Joy of the Lord and the Holy Spirit is my strength.

I give praise in learning from the Holy Spirit who guides my heart and gives me discernment.

I gratefully worship Jesus Christ, who paid the debt that human beings owed to God.

In awe I express respect to Christ, the supreme Jude of all ages. Christ is the Judge who is just, merciful and loving. He is firm and just in his judgement on everyone.

I marvel at he majestic glory of the Lord whose vast splendor exceeds anything a human can comprehend.

I bow to worship God who transcends humans and the material universe and all other spiritual beings.

I praise God that no one has the power to change God’s mind, plan or purpose.

I rejoice that God’s goodness supersedes the goodness of every person, ruler, power or creature.

I acknowledge that I do not always understand God’s plan, and ask for His wisdom and guidance in all that I do.

I worship God, the living way, truth and life.

I rejoice in Christ, the Light of the World, who lights my path and dispels the power of darkness.

I and the angels sing, “Worthy is the Lamb.”

I and the angels sing “Hallelujah”. (Praise to the Lord).

I bow down in worship and reverence before You, most holy God.

I rejoice that God knows everyone, individually. He knows my every thought and my every step.

I praise God for ordering my steps, for a life- long plan, a plan for eternity and the strength and wisdom to fulfill the plan.

I gratefully worship God who is able to do exceedingly, abundantly above all we can think or imagine (Ephesians 3:20).

I rejoice in the Holy Spirit who makes us Christ-like, and ask it to come ever more into my heart.

I praise God that I can confidently draw from His Strength in the time of my need.”


It helps greatly when you pray if you do things in the name of Jesus Christ, because Jesus said,

“If ye shall ask any thing in my name, I will do it.” (John 14:14)

Keep a printed sheet of your own personal prayers in your family church ring binder. I suggest that every time you pray you do at least the following:

  • Thank God for specific things.

  • Ask God for things you need, including personal improvement.

  • Ask God to bless yourself, your family and other people, including people who don’t know you.

Here is a suggestion:

“Thank you heavenly Father for our many blessings. Thank you for keeping us healthy and happy. Thank you for allowing us to incarnate in countries where there are no wars and there is much abundance. Thank you for our health, happiness and intelligence. Thank you for the material possessions that support our bodies, including our home, cars, computers, electricity, food, water and clothing. Thank you for our freedom and for keeping us safe. Thank you for giving us meaningful work to do. Thank you for showing us how to defeat the enemy.

In the name of Jesus Christ, we ask that you bless __________.

In the name of Yeshua, Jesus Christ, we pray that we be filled with the Holy Spirit and the Spirit of peace.

We pray that (names of children) also be filled with the spirit of sweetness, and obedience, and that they honor and respect all people.

In the name of Yeshua, Jesus Christ, we pray for Guidance of all of us, that we say and do exactly what God wants us to say and do, moment by moment, forever and ever.

In the name of Yeshua, Jesus Christ, we pray that we become more and more Holy. That we be filled with the Holy Spirit and increase the presence of God within us every day.

In the name of Yeshua, Jesus Christ, we pray that all babies are raised perfectly in love, health, happiness and holiness.

In the name of Yeshua, Jesus Christ, we pray that all animals in cruel confinement be released, including pigs, chickens, cows, horses, dogs, pets, apes, elephants and dolphins.

In the name of Yeshua, we pray that our country be set free from the powers of Freemasonry, communism and Satanism and all the dark powers that enslave it, so that it becomes free, Holy, abundant and fulfills your will.

In the name of Yeshua, Jesus Christ, we pray that there now be:

An end to Monsanto.

An end to genetically modified organisms (GMOs)

An end to vaccines.

An end to fluoride.

An end to nanotechnology.

An end to chemtrails.

An end to immoral behavior.

An end to demonic power on earth.

An end to mind control.

An end to the power of fallen angels on this earth.

In the name of Yeshua, we pray that you create heaven on earth, and bring all humans to a level that is even higher than that that existed in the Garden of Eden. We pray the words of Jesus Christ be fulfilled now –

“Verily, verily, I say unto you. He that believeth on me, the works that I do shall he do also, and greater works than these shall he do”. (John 14:12)

Glory be to the Father, and to the son, and to the Holy Spirit, for ever and ever, amen.”


Read a short section from the bible, especially the King James of 1611. Stat with the New Testament, because it’s easier to read and more important than the Old Testament.


Jesus Christ asked you to break bread in remembrance of him. He did not say that this was to be done only by another person who was given permission in some way through a human-created organization.

So break bread and drink ‘wine’ (fresh-squeezed grape juice) and feel your body being filled with the spirit of Jesus Christ as you do so.

Previous to doing this, read from the New Testament:

“And when he had given thanks, he brake it, and said, “Take, eat: this is my body, which is broken for you: this do in remembrance of me.

After he same manner also he took te cup, when he had supped, sasying, This cup is the new testament in my blood: this do ye, as oft as ye drink it, in remembrance of me.” (1 Corinthians 11:24)

And –

“And as they were eating, Jesus took bread, and bless it, and brake it, and gave it to the disciples, and said, “Take, eat: this is my body.”

And he took the cup, and gave thanks, and gave it to them, saying, “Drink ye all of it; For this is my blood of the new testament, which is shed for many for the remission of sins.” (Matthew 26:26)


I have found from experience that God is much more likely to grant your requests if you do what he wants, and don’t do what he doesn’t like, as much as possible. That makes sense – a parent is much more generous to a good child than a bad child. God does not like:

  • Alcohol.

  • Drugs.

  • Hurting people’s feelings.

  • Immorality.

  • Lying.

  • Materialism.

  • Selfishness.

  • Stealing.

  • Swearing.

  • Usury (borrowing money, especially when interest is involved).

Basically not being nice to people or being unholy.


If you are a Catholic, as I once was, this may seem sacrilegious at first. Therefore, you may want to learn how the Catholic church grew out of the Satanic Roman Empire, and incorporated many things that have nothing to do with Christ. That was one reason they did so many horrific things such as torture and murder millions in the Inquisition and have so many perversions today. Know that Jesus Christ said

“Verily, verily, I say unto you, He that believeth on me hath everlasting life.”(John 6:51).

He did not say anything about doing any rituals.

Then you may want to do, as I did, pray to break the soul ties between you and the Roman Catholic Church, so that you can be closer to Jesus Christ, and have no man-made organizations that can be taken over by Satanists, come between you and God. For more information on the Satanic infiltration of the Catholic Church, please listen to The Church on Haunted Hill:


Pray also to break soul ties in Jesus’ name from you to any other cult (since the Catholic Church is a cult), and back again (eg Jehovah’s witnesses, 7 Day Adventists, Mormon Church, Freemasonry, Transcendental Meditation, Deepak Chopra, Scientology, Multi-Level Marketing).

Pray also to break soul ties in Jesus’ name from you to any person you have been physically intimate with (even a kiss), and back again. So the same for anyone you had an infatuation for, such as a movie star or movie.



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